You know the drill, mom of young kiddos. You are staring down the 5th (or more) sleep-deprived day in a row. But you soldier on, through the runny noses, spilled juice, spilled milk, spilled unidentified liquid (or did someone wipe her nose on the couch?), and you survive. Then Daddy comes home and asks what’s for dinner. And the tears pour down your face. And he knows it’s his turn for the night shift.
You are thankful for the help. So, so thankful. Even though you know that tomorrow he will be exhausted–more exhausted than anyone has ever been before. It will take him weeks to recover. There is no way that you, mom, would be able to understand the utter exhaustion he will be feeling. “It’s different,” he’ll say. And, you’ll roll your eyes.
But, in the back of your mind, you know it’s true. Sleep is for Dads. Coffee is for moms. And you need somewhere to put said coffee. What better place than in your very own “Sleep is for Dads” mug. Which, conveniently for you, are now stocked in the blog “store” (I use the quotation marks because there is currently only one product). Snag yours now until 10/31 for 20% off with the code SLEEP20!
Cookie does not come with the mug. But, go ahead and grab yourself a treat to go along with your much needed coffee! No judgment here!
Putting on your makeup shouldn’t take long. There are, after all, cartoons to be watched, cuddles to be had and rooms to be destroyed. But, it does take some finesse to efficiently apply the perfect face.
In this quick lesson, I will teach you how to really “glam it up” in less time than it takes Mom to change baby brother’s diaper.
Step 1. Don’t head for Mom’s makeup drawer. I know that’s where you were going. And, while Mom’s lip gloss might work for every day occasions, if you are really looking to go glam, then head for the craft drawer. That’s right, the craft drawer. Now pick out the brightest marker you can find.
Step 2. Open the marker.
Step 3. Apply marker to your lips. Then, apply marker around your lips for that extra pizzazz. Don’t forget your cheeks. You don’t want them feeling left out.
Voila, you have the perfect look. Go show Mom. She’s probably just zipping up baby brother’s onesie. Her amazement of your beauty will be worth it all.
Step 4. You are probably thinking that after creating the perfect look, you are done. But, NO! Don’t fall prey to such naivety. The marker must be destroyed! To truly be glam, no look can be repeated. To accomplish this, simply pick out the marker tip and tear it in to tiny pieces, taking care to spread it across the floor. This will ensure that no adult can simply put it back together.
Stay tuned for more Toddler Stylings by Lillian. Next time we will be discussing tips for redecorating your play area…and the rest of the house.
Since I am so longer an HR Manager, I decided to use my job-description skills one last time for the very important position of “Mother.” Please note that this position can be taken on by itself or in conjunction with another career, either inside or outside the home. This “job description” is by no means comprehensive and comes only from my experience thus far as a mommy of 1 child under the age of two (and was written after a sleepless night). Hope you enjoy!
Overview: The Mother provides continual love, comfort, support and discipline to offspring. The ideal candidate is a creative, organized self-starter with the ability to research and apply her own on-the-job training. This position requires extreme flexibility and strong sense of humor.
Hours: The Mother is on call 24/7; some work may occasionally be performed remotely.
Responsibilities: Responsibilities of the Mother include, but CERTAINLY are not limited to the following:
- Conducting orientation and training in many different areas, including, but not limited to, eating, proper bathroom behavior, manners, obedience, and napping;
- Providing safety checks for all common play and meal areas;
- Providing food, clothing, and shelter for offspring;
- Providing a hand to hold, shoulder to cry on, and a general loving environment for offspring;
- Providing discipline, as needed, in a loving and patient manner;
- Assembling and performing safety checks of a variety of plastic, wooden, and battery operated toys.
- Cleaning various messes, ranging in various levels of disgusting;
- Coordinating various social calendars; and,
- Taking on technical challenges such as fixing broken zippers, toys, and other household items.
Experience: No experience required; on-the-job “training” available.
Required: A candidate must be able to:
- Function on less than 8 hours of sleep; the ability to function on 4-6 hours of sleep is strongly preferred;
- Field unsolicited advice in a professional and polite manner at every turn;
- Field glaring looks or comments of other judgmental Mothers (or Non-Mothers) for not agreeing on her stance on breastfeeding, formula feeding, staying at home, working outside the home, vaccinating, not vaccinating, co-sleeping, crying it out, etc; and,
- Make decisions quickly about what is best for her family and offspring.
Strongly Preferred: A candidates should
- Possess the ability to perform most household chores with one arm;
- Possess the ability to lift at least 30lbs of body weight, sacks, boxes, or other awkwardly shaped things (the ability to open doors while carrying these things is a plus);
- Possess the ability to hold bladder for an extended period of time and the ability use the restroom in under 1 minute flat on all occasions;
- Not be easily distracted by every day annoyances, like hair pulling, stepping on toys and food throwing;
- Possess a strong stomach and should not be easily grossed out;
- Possess the ability to make a song out of any situation;
- For children between the ages of 6 months and potty-training, possess the ability to wrestle a small bear down and clothe it;
- Possess an extreme amount of patience with offspring and the partnering Father; and,
- Possess an extreme amount of patience with herself and other Mothers.
- Candidates must be willing to make an initial 18+ year investment of time, money, and sacrifice of their own personal lives, for no initial monetary return on investment;
- The Mother will be provided with the cutest child(ren) ever;
- The Mother will be compensated in smiles, hugs, life lessons, and other highly-fulfilling, non-monetary moments; and,
- Hopefully, the Mother and her partnering Father will be provided grandchildren from their offspring and adequate end-of-life care.
There are numerous ways to apply to become a Mother. If you are interested, you should contact your common sense, doctor, or foster or adoption agency.